Level-Up Your Baby Shower - Host a Nesting Party Instead

My baby registry was fairly non-traditional and minimalist, reflecting my personal values and needs. I spent hours curating it, believing that once everything was checked off, I’d be fully prepared for my baby’s arrival.

But once my baby actually arrived, I realized I’d collected a bunch of items I didn’t really need—and was missing some essentials I hadn’t thought to include. I ended up returning or selling things and sending my partner out in a panic to get what we truly needed.

That’s when I first learned about nesting parties, and I was blown away. I wish I had known about them before my baby was born! A nesting party is a brilliant way to prepare for postpartum life. If you’re pregnant, pairing a nesting party with a thoughtful baby registry through Be Her Village can set you up for a smoother, more supported fourth trimester.

Unlike a traditional baby shower, a nesting party is about practical preparation, not just gifts. Guests help with tasks that make your home and life ready for the baby, from organizing the nursery to prepping freezer meals. This is especially helpful if you’re embracing a more natural, minimalist approach to parenting, where convenience and efficiency matter as much as aesthetics.

Here’s why a nesting party is so different—and why I think every new mom should consider it:

Focus on Preparation, Not Presents
Traditional baby showers often emphasize cute clothes and toys, which can lead to overstuffed closets and underused gear. Nesting parties focus on essentials: diapers, wipes, meal prep, baby gear assembly, and more. This ensures that you’re actually prepared for the realities of postpartum life.

Eco-Friendly & Minimalist-Friendly
A nesting party avoids the excess waste of wrapping paper, decorations, and items you don’t need. For natural-minded, eco-conscious, or minimalist moms, this can make a huge difference.

Activities That Actually Help

  • Nursery organization: Have friends help organize clothes, gear, and décor so everything is ready.

  • Freezer meal prep: Make meals together for easy postpartum nutrition.

  • Baby gear assembly: Strollers, car seats, and cribs can be prepped ahead of time.

  • DIY nursery projects: Craft wall hangings or mobiles with loved ones.

  • Baby clothes prep: Wash, fold, and organize clothing for easy access.

  • Nursing station setup: Have baskets ready where you’ll spend the most time breastfeeding.

  • Activity bins for older kids: Keep toddlers busy during nursing sessions.

  • Install a bidet: A quick and easy way to stay clean and refreshed postpartum.

And if you want to take your postpartum prep to the next level, consider adding placenta encapsulation to your plan. Working with me for placenta pills in South Jersey, Central Jersey, and Philadelphia means more than just hormone support and energy balance—it’s guidance for the whole fourth trimester. I’m trained as a Perinatal Mental Health Specialist with Postpartum Support International, so I can help you navigate postpartum recovery with confidence, support, and practical strategies.

When you combine a minimalist registry, a nesting party, and placenta encapsulation, you set yourself up for a postpartum experience that’s intentional, supported, and as smooth as possible.

Click here to learn more about placenta encapsulation in South Jersey, Central Jersey, and Philadelphia, and how I can help you feel prepared and supported during the fourth trimester.

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