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Not loving every Minute of early motherhood?

I got you.

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You know you should ask for help, sleep When the Baby Sleeps, and enjoy Every Minute

…but for some reason this whole mom things feels a lot harder than you imagined it would be.

Because no one prepared you for:
– The rage that bubbles under the surface
– The partner who “helps” but doesn’t carry
– The shame of feeling overwhelmed when you’re “doing everything right”
– The grief of losing who you were — and not knowing who you’re becoming

You’re not lazy. You’re not too sensitive. You’re not doing it wrong.
You’re living through postpartum in a system built to break you — not support you.

Let’s change that.

Alexandra L.

Working with Tiff was life-changing. As a first-time mom facing postpartum depression, I felt so alone—until Tiff gave me a safe space to be seen and supported without judgment. Her practical tools and compassionate guidance helped me understand my brain, shift my self-talk, and finally breathe. I’m showing up for my baby in a way that actually feels sustainable.

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Can you imagine how it would feel to finally…

  • Sleep in three-hour stretches without waking up in a panic.

  • Enjoy your baby without constantly scanning the room for what's about to go wrong.

  • Have a partner who carries the mental load with you.

  • Get through a day without crying or raging in a closet.

  • Have someone check in on you for once.

  • Know what you need, ask for it, and get it—without guilt.

  • Feel proud of how you're showing up as a mom and a human.

  • Make peace with your brain, your body, and this crazy time.

Imagine being able to be the mom you want to be—
without having to fight your nervous system, your partner, and the entire world to get there.

This is what happens when you have radical, real-time support from someone who’s BTDT.

No fixing. No shaming.

Just scaffolding that holds you up while you hold everything else.

Introducing

The Mom as You Are Mentorship Package

Full-spectrum support for moms who are overwhelmed, overextended, and sick of pretending they’re fine.

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What makes Mom as You Are Mentorship different?

Most postpartum support stops at 6 weeks.
Most therapists need you to book a session, find childcare, and have words.
Most doulas vanish after the first month.
Most coaches give you a workbook and disappear.

But this?
This is full-spectrum, real-time support for an entire year — and it’s optimized for ADHD brains and lifestyles.

Mom as You Are Mentorship is the first program designed specifically for neurodivergent, anxious, and overwhelmed moms who are burned out by traditional advice and unsupported by their partners.

It’s not just about surviving motherhood. It’s about dismantling the systems that are failing you — and building a plan that lets you mother on your terms.

This isn’t therapy (but it’s therapeutic).
This isn’t coaching (but it’s strategic).
This isn’t doula work (but it’s nurturing).
This is one-on-one radical care that meets you where you are—in your messy kitchen, on the bathroom floor, or sobbing silently during a contact nap.

No judgment. No worksheets you’ll forget to open.
Just validation, cheerleading, and solicited advice for a whole year.

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You’ll Finally Be Able To...

✅ Create a realistic, customized postpartum plan
…so that you’re not reinventing the wheel every day while your brain screams “we’re not doing enough.”

✅ Identify your personal PMAD risk factors + build scaffolding around them
…so you’re managing proactively, not melting down reactively.

✅ Develop sustainable systems for your home, body, and brain
…so that you don’t crumble when the baby wakes up early, your partner forgets again, or your to-do list feels like a trap.

✅ Communicate your needs clearly and unapologetically
…so you stop simmering in resentment and start building real partnership.

✅ Access support in real-time, not weeks later
…so you’re not alone in the moment everything feels too loud, too hard, too much.

✅ Understand your brain on motherhood
…so you can stop shaming yourself for how you think and finally work with your brain—not against it.

✅ Interrupt the generational cycle of martyrdom and burnout
…so your child sees a version of motherhood that includes joy, boundaries, and rest.

✅ Regulate your nervous system and reclaim your peace
…so that you can respond, not react—and feel like yourself again.

✅ Feel seen, validated, and supported—without having to explain yourself
…so you don’t spend your days defending your choices or masking your needs.

Here’s What’s Inside

  • You’ll complete an extensive questionnaire designed to help both of us get crystal clear on who you are and what you actually need. It will highlight your unique risk factors for postpartum mental health struggles and give you real insight into what’s impacting your experience—so we can focus on the kind of support that will make the biggest difference.

  • This isn’t a pep talk. This is where we dig into what’s overwhelming you—ADHD chaos, anxiety spirals, weaponized incompetence from your partner—and build systems that meet you where you are. You’ll leave with a custom plan and an actual sense of direction.

  • A crystal-clear, personalized guide to your fourth trimester. Think of it as a map through the fog: how to structure your days, build in recovery time, organize your support, and advocate for what you need. Realistic, neurodivergent-friendly, zero shame.

  • One call a month to reassess, recalibrate, and get grounded. We’ll troubleshoot what’s not working, celebrate what is, and make sure you’re not doing this alone. These calls keep your plan alive, flexible, and yours.

  • Quick text-based check-ins to help you feel seen, supported, and accountable. You’ll know someone has your back every week—and if you’re not okay, we’ll adjust.

  • Access to me via text, email, voice notes, or video message for the full 12 months. No waiting two weeks for a therapy appointment. No bottling it up until it explodes. Just real-time support when you actually need it.

Ready to stop living by everyone else’s expectations—

and start building a life that works for you?

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Meet your mentor.

Hey, I’m Tiff—and I’ve been where you are.

When I became a mom, I was exhausted, overstimulated, and carrying the full mental, physical, and emotional load—alone.
On the outside, I looked like I had my shit together.
Inside? I was tense, on-edge, and drowning.

No one asked the right questions. No one noticed.
I had to figure it out the hard way.

I built the Mom As You Are Mentorship because no mom should have to duct-tape her sanity together just to survive the day. You deserve to enjoy motherhood—on your terms.

As an autistic single mom with ADHD, I’m not gonna blow smoke and pretend I’ve got it all figured out.
But I’ve figured out a lot.

My kids are 16 and 11. I’ve been through the rage, the burnout, the silent breakdowns. I’ve screamed into pillows and begged for help that never came. I know what it’s like to be failed by a system that pathologizes us but never supports us.

So I created what I needed:
Honest, non-clinical support. Rooted in solidarity, not shame.

Because 1 in 5 moms get hit with a PMAD (Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorder).
If your brain works differently? That risk goes way up.
And the support? Practically nonexistent.

You deserve more than survival. You deserve scaffolding.
Someone in your corner.
Motherhood that works for your life.

I’m so glad you found your way here.

Let’s stop pretending you’re fine—and start making sure you are.

Is the Mom As You Are Mentorship right for you?

Let’s be honest: this isn’t for everyone. And that’s a good thing. This work is personal, raw, and designed for people who are done pretending.

This mentorship is PERFECT for you if:

  • You’re pregnant or newly postpartum and want support that actually understands how your brain works

  • You’re neurodivergent, anxious, overstimulated, or exhausted—and tired of being told to “just rest”

  • You’ve felt unseen, misunderstood, or let down by the standard care model

  • You want real-time, real-life support—not more PDFs and platitudes

  • You want someone in your corner for the long haul—not just six weeks

  • You know something has to change, but you don’t know where to start

  • You’re craving systems, validation, and scaffolding that doesn’t feel shamey or fake

  • You believe radical postpartum support is a necessity, not a luxury

This is NOT for you if:

  • You’re looking for a quick fix, a cookie-cutter workbook, or a cheerleader who just nods along

  • You believe new moms just need to try harder, be more grateful, or “get over it”

  • You’re uncomfortable with anti-capitalist, feminist, or neurodivergent perspectives

  • You want a conventional coaching experience focused on goals and hustle

  • You’re not open to vulnerability, reflection, or rethinking what postpartum should look like

When you're ready to feel seen, supported, and radically cared for—as you actually are—this mentorship will be here.

Don’t let another day go by thinking this is just how it has to be.

You can keep telling yourself it’ll get easier. That your partner will finally step up. That you’ll figure it out once the baby sleeps longer, once your hormones settle, once you “get it together.”

But if you’ve made it this far, you already know: this isn’t working.
And you’re not the problem.

The longer you wait to get support that actually sees and supports you, the longer you stay stuck in survival mode—burnt out, shut down, and wondering if you’re just not cut out for motherhood.

You don’t need to wait for a breaking point to ask for help. You’re allowed to want ease, clarity, and care—right now.

The Mom As You Are Mentorship isn’t just a lifeline. It’s a rebellion against a world that has left you hanging.

Let’s build the support you’ve been needing all along.

Start today—and give yourself what no one else thought to offer.
Because you deserve better than survival mode.

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You have questions. I have answers.

“I want to Do this, but I’m already overwhelmed. What if I don’t have time for this?”

That’s exactly why this mentorship exists. You don’t need to prep, journal, or show up polished. I meet you where you’re at. This isn’t about adding more to your plate—it’s about helping you clear space to breathe. Support should lighten your load, not add to it.

“I’m not postpartum yet. Should I wait until after the baby comes?”

Nope. In fact, the earlier we start, the more grounded you’ll be. Planning ahead gives us time to build real systems and support before the chaos hits. And once baby arrives? You’ve already got a plan, a person, and a lifeline in place.

“What if I don’t feel ‘bad enough’ to need this?”

You don’t have to hit rock bottom to deserve support. This is for anyone who wants to feel more resourced, more steady, and more seen. You don’t need a diagnosis. You don’t need permission. You’re allowed to want more ease and less isolation.

“My partner doesn’t get why I’d pay for this kind of support.”

That’s common—and honestly, part of the problem. If you’re the default parent or the emotional glue of your household, this mentorship is about making sure you don’t get lost in the shuffle. You can show them exactly what’s included—or just tell them it’s non-negotiable care.

“What if I fall behind or ghost you?”

You won’t be shamed or dropped. Life happens. I built this to be flexible, human, and supportive—not performative or perfectionist. Whether you need a quick check-in or a deep reset, I’ll still be here.

“Is this therapy?”

Nope. I’m not a licensed therapist. This is mentorship and strategy from someone who’s been there and who knows the system from the inside. If you’re looking for clinical care, I can help you find a provider and build systems to support that work.

What if I’m not neurodivergent? Is this still for me?

Absolutely. This mentorship is for any mom who feels overwhelmed, exhausted, and like the system’s not built for her—whether you’ve got a spicy brain or not.

This is about honoring your unique brain and needs, and if you struggle with anxiety, sensory overload, perfectionism, or just plain burnout, you belong here.

You don’t need a label to get the support you deserve.

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About Tiff, Perinatal Mental Health Specialist

Tiff D’Amico is a certified perinatal mental health specialist, educator, placenta encapsulation specialist, and neurodivergent birth worker based in South Jersey. With over 15 years of experience supporting families through pregnancy, birth, and the fourth trimester, Tiff brings a unique mix of evidence-based insight, radical empathy, and lived experience as a solo parent and neurodivergent mother.

She specializes in supporting clients navigating ADHD, anxiety, PMAD risk factors, and non-traditional parenting paths. Her work is grounded in anti-capitalist, feminist values and a fierce belief that postpartum care should be accessible, honest, and designed to meet people as they are.

When she’s not supporting new parents, you can find Tiff kayaking, tending to her permaculture garden, or raising two incredible kids who keep her honest, humble, and always learning.

My Values

I work best with moms who are figuring out how to do this whole thing their way — not the way their mom did it, not the way some insta-mommies do it, and definitely not the way mainstream parenting culture expects them to.

If you’re a cycle-breaking, system-questioning, mama-gut-following parent who’s trying to do better — even if you don’t have it all figured out yet — I’m with you 1000%.

    • I believe in human rights. I believe Black lives matter — and until all of us are free, none of us are free.

    • I support bodily autonomy, queer and trans families, and accessible mental health care for everyone.

    • I honor neurodiversity and all neurotypes as natural, beautiful spectrums — just like gender and sexuality. None of these fit into neat boxes, and they’re not just clinical diagnoses.

    • I see postpartum anxiety and mental health struggles as social constructs shaped by capitalism, colonialism, patriarchy, and white supremacy — systems that don’t have our best interests at heart.

    • I’m here for moms who want to break free from all that — who are ready to reclaim their power, rewrite the rules, and mother on their terms.

    • I believe babies are people.

    • I support gentle, responsive parenting — not cry-it-out, not “sleep training,” not obedience culture.

    • I’m all for extended breastfeeding, babywearing, cosleeping, and following your instincts over any mainstream parenting advice that feels off.

    • I know very little about mainstream parenting practices like formula feeding, sleep training, scheduled naps, or strict baby routines — because I’m all about trusting your mama gut and doing what actually works for you and your baby.

Ready to Take control of Your Postpartum Experience?

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