Thanksgiving Reality Check

Living in a consumerist and capitalistic culture, we're sold the illusion that happiness is just a click away. 

But you know it's a scam.

You know it in the same way that you know the Thanksgiving narrative is a lie.

You know that it's a story intricately woven with the harsh realities of colonization, displacement, and profound impacts on Indigenous communities.

Recognizing the real history of Thanksgiving demands acknowledging the injustices and struggles faced by Native peoples everywhere.

It urges us to approach the holiday with a somber reflection on the broader historical context and the ongoing effects of colonialism, reminding us that our celebration should be tempered with awareness, respect, and a commitment to understanding the full story.

Now, shifting our focus to the realities of motherhood in America, let's address the glaring hypocrisy of a world that bombards us with consumerism and capitalism but falls short in supporting new moms and families.

This culture, built upon and continuing to benefit from the invisible and unpaid labor of women, especially those of Black and Brown communities, requires a more realistic Thanksgiving celebration.

Today while gathering and feasting, let's remember to thank the real heroes — the moms.

We are courageously and unapologetically raising the next generation of change-makers, bravely breaking toxic cycles, ditching cultural lies, and rejecting social norms.

We are the warriors who are instilling values for change into our children, learning to set boundaries and love ourselves—not only for the benefit of our own children but for the world at large.

Today, let's remember to thank the moms.

I’d like to offer three actionable steps to help you remember to consciously shift the mom narrative in your own life:

Speak Up: Don't be afraid to voice your needs. Let your partner, family, and friends know how crucial their support is during this critical time. Communicate very specifically about your needs.

Find Your People: Connect with other moms who share your challenges and successes. Share stories, offer advice, and most importantly, build a supportive community.

Demand Change: Advocate for better postpartum support. Whether it's in your workplace or community, be the voice that demands change and understanding. 

The time for change is now.

If you’re an expecting or new mom who doesn’t buy into the bullshit, and you want to build a better world for our kids, I invite you to join me in the Fourth Trimester Revolution.